You want to do something that is a game changer. You want to be taken into a new world, a world unknown and mysterious to you. For example, if you could design “Find-the-Clue” invitation for your partner, then blindfolding your partner for the car drive to your secret destination. All the weekend’s amorous activities have been pre-planned. Sensually leading your Lover into the abyss of the unknown. The Star Satisfaction. The Spiced Tea’s Magic. Surprises, awe, and frequent bantering must fuel a transparent and joyful partnership. Pentacles #1: Satisfaction

Made for a generation that cares deeply about equality, diversity and social justice, these cards introduce relevant modern concepts in a social-action context Fear. The White Dove’s Magic. Fear widens the gap, and pursuing your mate will not help. Happiness is the result of two people working together to become closer to one other. #15: Ace of Wands Union

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The Spike of Wheat’s Magic. The tie that keeps others from escaping us is formed not from fear but from delight, not from chains but from freedom, not from past promises but from future aspirations. #27: Undressing Queen

The enchantment of verbena in the brook. Searching for new vistas requires both a pair and a single person. The rest of the world exists outside of your everyday routine. #35: Try it out You both choose to see a sex therapist to receive intimate techniques to prolong the ecstatic, sensual and spiritual experience to materialize between you. Magnetism. Orgy is being liberated. Eros is a grandiose power that, when abused, can lead to deception, betrayal, or extortion. #16: The Tower Although some teachers and many parents are primarily concerned with sexual intercourse – and the possible consequences of pregnancy and sexually transmissible infections – this cannot be properly understood without the person appreciating the foundations of sex education. Some of the learning areas identified above may seem too complex for those with more severe forms of autism, but this underlines the need for adapting the curriculum for individuals when teaching such pupils. Essential concepts for understandingTurning more toward the future, I did another three card spread — this time focusing on where you’re at, what you want and how you can get there. This time, I drew the Four of Clits, The Stripper and The Moon reversed (reversals can be controversial in tarot, but I like to occasionally look at all the ways an a card can express different parts of one idea). Dr Naomi Sutton Consultant Physician at the Integrated Sexual Health Services, The Rotherham NHS Foundation Trust and TV doctor on E4’s The Sex Clinic Hollomotz, A. (2011) Learning Difficulties and Sexual Vulnerability: A Social Approach, Jessica Kingsley Publishers.