A few days went by when one of Jen's best friend s from school wanted to invite her to a party at her house. Apparently, her friends parents were going out of town so she had to look after the house while they were gone. Jen looked down, thanks but I can't, my dad put me on restriction for another week and a half. Having Alice’s clitty easily available or on display is what I expect nowadays. I love to play about with it, decorate it or just look at it. It’s my personal living sex toy — so much better than a plastic dildo. The biggest challenge for us is incorporating our wife led marriage into our relationships with our children. Like all couples we sometimes have differing opinions on how to respond to issues with children. That conflict of opinion was a significant challenge for us prior to our commitment to WLM, and has improved even more since incorporating domestic discipline into our marriage. Gary has a great deal of input on the issues with children, but in the end Kathy makes the decision and Gary is expected to embrace her decision. If he fails to do so he will be punished quite severely, because this is a very important issue to Kathy. Being dominant is as much about self-control as it is about control of the scene. You need to make sure that you don’t get carried away and that you’re someone your partner can trust at all times. Stepping outside of the boundaries you’ve agreed on can instantly destroy that trust. Essential BDSM Toys, Tools, and Props for Doms I’m not convinced I believe the sources you mention that suggest that total abstinence is physically and mentally healthy for Sissy.

All bank accounts and credit cards will be in my name only. You will get a weekly allowance that I will determine. You must get permission for all other expenditures. The factor that made it work for me was the build-up to activity getting in the right frame of mind, soak in a scented bath, make-up, shaved, nice music, lovely lingerie and the rest that you are likely familiar with. BDSM play allows us to temporarily indulge all our naughtiest fantasies and break free of these limitations. The idea of doing something that is in some way wrong, morally or otherwise, is utterly thrilling. Power Dynamics are Exciting What I’m suggesting is prostate milking. This could become a weekly ritual. Perhaps an entertainment for a ladies tea party. Some of our rules include such things as the area of decision making. Once Kathy has asked Gary for his input, and genuinely considers his position she will make a decision that she feels is best for our marriage and family. Once she has made her decision, Gary is expected to not only accept her decision, but to really “embrace” the decision. Once she makes a decision she does not allow complaining, whining or rehashing it. If he violates that rule he is generally harshly spanked with a paddle or cane. another of our rules is that if Gary ever curses at Kathy, speaks disrespectfully to her, walks away in a huff, etc., Kathy generally would wash his mouth out with soap and then rather severely spank him. A third rule is related to finances. Kathy is much better at financial management than Gary. She gives him a small allowance each week, and if he runs out of money he is to come to her and ask for additional funds. If he ever buys something outside of his allowance by using a credit or debit card without first getting her prior approval, he is generally spanked quite severely. Another rule is in the area of housework. Gary is responsible for most of the household chores, including laundry, dusting, vacuuming, washing the floors, etc. If he does not complete his chores on time or in the manner Kathy expects she will typically ask him for an explanation and then dole out punishment if necessary. All of our rules were developed together and we both agreed on the consequences if the rule is broken.His wife was sitting in the easy chair dressed unusually nice for this late of night. Odd he was thinking, I didn't think she had plans to go out tonight. Being obedient to a Dominant woman and living a life of servitude under her leadership can provide submissive men an enormous sense of calm and deep-rooted feeling of contentment. Serving women in a FLR gives men purpose. There are many different specific types of submissions, and every sub has his/her own tastes. Some of the most popular fantasies subs like to act out include: The other girls whispered oh my gosh, I though for sure he would move or say something when you did that. Kathy smiled nope. I guess Jen was right. Jen then put her left foot over her right and did the same but this time she inched her foot closer to Dave's head and bobbed her dangling shoe that much closer. Tell us a little bit about yourselves. How old you are, how long you’ve been married (or, in a relationship), how you heard about domestic discipline, what made you start practicing, etc?

Obey Now: This will make him do what ever you want taking full control of his body but keeping his personal will in tact but unable to exercise it: it will be like he is a passenger in his body unable to control his emotions , sexual excitement or what his body does in reaction to the command. The main thing that all Doms have in common is that they’re trying to evoke a sense of power and authority over their sub. That’s the basic idea, and that can be achieved through a whole lot of different elements. At one time we came up with the “rule” that I must consume my “goo” if I released without permission. Sometimes she remembers to make me eat it and sometimes she makes me eat it even when I do have permission. Keeps me guessing. The title you choose is really all about personal preference. Some titles have very specific undertones and evoke certain power dynamics, and this should play a part in your considerations too.

The history of this transformation is outlined in the opening entries in the diary. Essentially, though, my story is that of a wife who was coaxed and manipulated by her husband into wearing and doing things that satisfied his sexual fantasies, and then giving him more than he bargained for when the conditioning changed her for real. Perhaps it should serve as a warning to all latently submissive men who dream of their partner taking control of them and humiliating them. In short, be careful what you wish for. Noo-Way her friend Kathy remarked. Ya I know, I really want to go but I cant. Jen looked disappointedly at the ground. See Dad caught my boyfriend in my room last week at night and flipped. See my boyfriends father passed away and he's been having a hard time with the loss and all. His mom has pretty much gone off the deep end. He just wanted to be held for a little bit, he was crying when he came in my room. We weren't doing anything , did just flipped without asking what was going on. Cathy said, I'm sorry about that your dad waaay over reacted.

During a recent long session of playing about with her erect clitty and not permitting her to cum, I asked myself — what exactly is the point of male ejaculation when there is no longer any need for reproduction? Once you start training your husband into a cute sissy about how long till he becomes content to be your “she” sissy husband? I am actually hoping to have a sissy husband by the time American football starts. I would like “her” to now sit on my lap in the couch in her short skirt with cute panties and pantyhose while I wear our favorite team’s leggings. It would be nice to be the “guy” while watching for a change. I would love to fondle “her” cute groomed “clitty” to get wet at times during the game for my pleasure.

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My wife is certainly not as interested as you are in things like feminization, which I crave, but has progressed in some increments. Mostly I do things myself with her grudging acceptance and occasional encouragement. S&M is about inflicting and taking pain for pleasure, whereas D/s is about power exchanges that don’t necessarily have to be physical. Some Doms might enjoy elements of S&M and like to inflict pain on a willing sub partner, but others might not. Sure, you might want to roleplay a situation where he’s forcing her to do what he wants, but it’s still just that — a roleplay scene. Dom (dominant) is a term used in the BDSM community to refer to the dominant partner in a BDSM relationship. The Dom takes on the role of the superior and sexually ‘dominates’ the submissive partner.

I’ve covered the reasons for this on many of my earlier posts, such as — The Ultimate Guide To A Successful Female Led Relationship and A Forced Feminization Lifestyle.

How you train your sub is up to you. Whether you rule through rewards or punishments comes down to what you and your sub prefer and the kind of power exchange you’re trying to act out. 8. Experiment With Impact Play However, I had a brand new idea for our relationship — not permitting Alice to ejaculate. Sex yes, but the end result has changed. For Alice, not for me.