As I got older, my world expanded. I went to college and graduate school, and I made lots of openly LGBTQ friends. Little by little, I unlearned the homophobic lessons I had been brought up with —at least as they applied to other people. But bisexuality didn’t feel like an identity that was available to me as a newlywed in a heterosexual marriage. Instead, I told myself that my attraction to women was just a side effect of growing more comfortable with my (straight) sexuality —basically a grown-up version of the hormones misfiring story. I was a sexual, progressive person with an open worldview, but I wasn’t bi. Princess Leonor's family album: Spanish royals release intimate photos charting future Queen's path from... It’s very confusing, and while I’m aware of sexual fluidity, I don’t know anyone else personally who got to age 40 and actually changed their orientation. Everyone says what the comments here say – it was something they hid from themselves. For me, as a child being gay wasn’t an option and I liked boys so I didn’t wonder – but I also can’t remember ever having a crush on any women until now (I did feel uncomfortable about how pretty actress Amanda Seyfried was when I was in my late teens or early twenties but that’s literally my only memory of any “hints”). The first issue here is your marriage. You need to make a decision about that before committing to anyone else. In fact you should have a break from the woman to sort out your feelings about your marriage and think about if it can be fixed - being very honest with yourself and your husband. If you decide to split from your husband do it because it's best for you and your family and not because of her. You have a lot to think about so don't rush into anything and take it step by step.

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She continued, “She was literally texting me every single day. ‘Oh, I’m in your neighbourhood, can I just come over? Can I come over? I need to see you.’ I said, ‘Well, I can meet you for a drink, I can meet you at dinner.’ I just didn’t want to be alone with her, because I felt that she had a lot of dude energy, like she really wanted me.”